2023-06-29
We all know what a dildo is — A phallic-shaped toy that can be inserted, and unlike butt plugs or anal beads, be used to create a thrusting sensation. Like all anal toys, dildos come in a variety of shapes, girths, lengths and colors. Although they can be inserted like any other anal toy, they typically are not the best for hands-free play because of a) their length and b) the lack of tapered base like most butt plugs or prostate massagers have.
When people shop for dildos, something that comes up commonly is a desire to buy a toy that is identical to a partner, either because it is what they are already comfortable with or maybe they want to practice inserting girthier and/or longer sizes. The problem with this is dildos offer very little in terms of “foreplay” and unlike butt plugs which usually have a tapered tip, which allows for gradual insertion. Dildo tips are oftentimes more bulbous and require the person inserting it to be properly warmed up. Getting one a size smaller than your goal can be useful in warming up, as the goal here is to relax the sphincter muscles rather than going from zero to 100 right away. Don’t want to get an extra dildo? Another option is to warm up first with a butt plug or your fingers.