The Best Sex Toys for Couples: Where Do You Start?

Lots of choice in sex toys for couples

Sex toys have become high-tech products these days. But that doesn't mean you have to go along with it. It's okay to start off slow with some exciting couples sex toys that are still 'old fashioned'. Have no fear, because these sex toys are still around and more exciting than ever!

Buying sex toys for couples: From idea to implementation

Don't make hasty decisions without involving your partner first. Then go shopping together.

Discuss it with your partner first

Maybe you are eager to go straight to the sex shop, or order a sex toy online, but that is not a good idea. If you want it to be fun for both, it is important to discuss this with your partner first. The key to success is. Finding sex toys that turn both of you on. And that can only be done by discussing it beforehand. By the way, the discussion can be an exciting moment in itself…

Shopping together for your ultimate sex toy!

Selecting and buying your sex toys together is half the fun. The best way is to visit a sex shop so that you can get expert advice and see and feel the sex toys for yourself. In the sex shop you can poke around for maybe other ideas, and you can ask questions to the seller. Maybe you just want to feel how soft that one vibrator is, or how strong the vibrations are. A good idea of the size can also be important.

But if you don't feel comfortable with that, you also have the option to order the sex toys online. The sex toys will then be delivered to your home in a neutral packaging within a few days.

Are you beginners? Keep it simple !

Especially if you want to try this for the first time, it is wise to keep it simple. Then don't go straight for the complicated sex toys that are connected to the internet. A good example is the couple vibrator.

A couple vibrator

A good idea to start is the so-called couple vibrator, a vibrator for couples, also called a 'Vibe'. There are all kinds of couple vibrators available and different ways to use them. They are basically designed to stimulate both partners (in this case a hetero couple) to the maximum at the same time.

Again: Keep it simple, especially in the beginning.

If your partner shows up with a giant remote-controlled vibrator, you probably feel very intimidated. An old fashioned 'normal' model might be better: Less intimidating and just as much fun for both of you!